My Husband, && His EX.....&& My Fear....

Yeah so without trashing "her" to much, my husbands ex is and eXceptional piece of work! In the beginning I mighta bashed her...lOl in more ways then one. I was young when I met my husband who has his two older daughters with her, And I embarced the new situation that I found myself in.
Man the game's she would play..... Someday I might share them all. But she's wierd she dont want him back.... but she dont want him with me.
At first she used to just play games and he would just fall into them pissing me off. But now he stands up for himself a little more.
I'm gonna give an examlpe of a few: "Special Moments"
Right after we first got married. She called our house and said "Oh congratulations Girl!!" Yeah right she's so phoney so when my hub got on the phone.. she's starts goin off I cant believe you'd just go out and get married with out tellin me,.......
Or right after we went to court we were gettin visitation with them every other weekend at his fathers house at her request there were weekends when I wouldn't go. One weekend that I went she asked to talk to the girls. While she talked to the oldest the other girl ran around the house like crazy. The oldest was sitting next to me I could her ask if I was there and where did I sleep. (Wtf!!) Right? well she wanted to talk alyssa who I was askin to stop running I never punish the girls but I do.... scold them and I was askin her not to run that wasn't our house didn't want anythin to get broken. When alyssa finally got on the phone she didn't wana talk to her mother, so she gave the phone to my husband and started tellin him that Alyssa didn't wana talk to her cause I was yellin at her. After we took the girls home that night. She again called my husband and told him that he wasn't gona see the girls next weekend that way he "Could talk to" me!!


Anyways I'ma stop with the special moments for now. To get with my current topic.....

Around two weeks ago.. my husband got a call from the girls askin him if they wanted to meet them while there grandma got her hair done. Of course he agreed we even changed our movies plans so that he can go. They hung out had lunch I was really happy for him. One of the hardest things about bein married to man with other children from a previous relationship is not so much dealin with the "other momma drama" but knowin that there's a piece of him missin.
Then they asked him if he could buy Melinda (the oldest). Some shoe's. He's in a situation that where if he say's he can't it'll haunt him for the rest of his life bout how he's a wortheless father and so on. So he does which is ok with me..........

But now here is my concern..... He bought her shoe's,..... hasn't seen them or heard from them since. Now I know that there values and morals are a bit tweaked due to there mother. But I don't want them to just call him when they need somethin..... I want them to call say hi ask how he's doin... we'll see what happens....like I said so far he hasn't heard from them!